
Hey, I’m Tahjai Dominic, and welcome to a 🔒 subscriber-only access 🔒 of my weekly newsletter. I write a letter to my son each week with meaningful advice, life lessons and need to know information that every young man should know. This is a continuance letter, a book if you will, designed to push any young man to keep focus and avoid disastrous mistakes in life. If you are want to receive every letter, upgrade your subscription. If not that is perfectly fine, you’ll still get one letter a month.
My Dearson,
There’s something I need to tell you - something I wish I had learned much earlier in life.
Things take time and discipline.
So, you should be focusing on getting 1% better everyday . That’s it. One small improvement. One quiet choice. One Rep!
Stack that everyday and it becomes unstoppable. Let me show you what I mean.
The Compound Power of Small Gains
Most people completely misunderstand growth. They think its a massive leap; some grand gesture. But growth - real, lasting growth - is almost invisible while its happening.
Here’s the math:
If you improve by just 1% every day for a full year, you’ll be 37 times better by the end of it. Not 37% but Thirty-Seven times! That’s the power of compounding. It works the same way your money grows with interest. Except this time, the investment is you.
💧The Water Metaphor (Don’t Miss this)
Imagine your heating up a pot of water. Your at 80 degrees. Then 90. Then 99…
But nothings happening yet.
Its still just hot water.
Then you hit 100 degrees - and suddenly , it boils.
That one extra degree changes the entire state of the water.
It becomes something new. Something powerful.
Growth works the same way.
You might be at 97 degrees right now and ready to quit. But if you stick with it just a little longer…. everything starts to bubble.
🧱🧱Stacking Bricks: A Story from My life
There was a time when I wanted everything to change in my life - fast.
I was frustrated, overwhelmed and hungry for breakthrough. So I tried to sprint.
I read all the books. Bought the courses.
Woke up at 5am for two weeks straight. But then I’d burn out and go right back to square one.
It wasn’t until I slowed down and started stacking bricks; that things shifted.
One good morning.
One Clean habit.
One small win.
I built a wall of consistency brick by brick - not overnight. And now that wall protects me.
It holds up my discipline. it give me strength when I don’t feel like showing up.
🧠 Why We Quit Too Soon.
Most people quit too early - not because they’re lazy.
But because they never see the reward as soon as they’d like.
You go to the gym for 10 days straight… and your body looks the same.
You write one chapter of the book… and it still feels unfinished.
You make the calls, send the emails…. and no answers.
So you stop.
But what you didn’t realize is that you were at 99 degrees.
One more rep. One more day. One more week.
And the momentum would’ve kicked in.
🦾 How to Get 1% Better (Starting Today)
Here’s how you start stacking your own bricks:
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Pick one thing. Not five. Just one area of life.
→ Fitness? Sales? Communication? Prayer?
Create a simple rule.
→ “I will read 10 pages each day.”
→ “I will send 3 cold emails before 10am.”
→ “I will sit in silence every morning before sunrise.”
Track it.
→ Use a notebook. A calendar. A checklist. Something you can see.
And here’s the secret:
Don’t break the chain.
You wont feel amazing after one day. You wont even feel different after five.
But somewhere between day 25 and day 50, something shifts.
And a year from now, you’ll be unrecognizable.
📢From My Voice to Yours
Son, one day you’ll be tempted to rush.
To “fix” your life overnight. To force results.
But I want you to remember this letter.
Success is not build in sprints. Its build in layers.
And every day you show up - even when its small - you are laying another brick.
Trust the process. The wall will hold.
So ask yourself: What’s my 1% today?
Then go do it.
I’ll be here rooting for you - one brick at a time.
With love and belief.
Dad
✉ P.S.
Did this letter hit home? Forward it to a brother, friend, or son who needs it too.
Lets build stronger men - 1% at a time.
✅ Challenge of the Week: The 1% Growth Tracker.
Pick one area of your life you want to grow in this month. Just one.
Write it down. Then for the next 7 days, ask yourself at the start of each day:
→ “What’s one small action I can take today to get 1% better in this area?”
Keep it simple.
Examples:
If its communication → write a 3-line journal about your thoughts every morning.
If it’s fitness → do 20 pushups before your shower.
If its faith → spend 5 minutes in silence or scripture before hopping on your phone.
If its sales → send one voice memo to a cold lead each morning.
And here’s the key:
✅Track your 1% daily on a calendar, notebook, or whiteboard.
Your only job is not to break the chain for 7 days.